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Good news and bad news from my eye doctor. The good news is he concurs that I ought to have at least the right eye done (we’ll see how my vision is after that – it is by FAR the worst eye). The bad news is the scheduler was sick yesterday so I can’t find out when the surgery will be for a few more days yet. I’ll call on Monday and see when I can get in. He thought it would be about a month.
So glad a bit of calm has returned to your life. Enjoy it.
Thursday I did something I have wanted to do for years but just had not. I ordered DNA testing kits from Ancestry for Carol, Sam and myself. I can’t wait to see the results and the kits have not even arrived yet. Like many people I have certain results I hope show up even if only 1 %. I don’t want to say but I might if the results are positive. I’m interested to see Sam’s results too. We think there may be a tiny bit (one ancestor) of Native American.
Sam wants to have Petey’s DNA checked to see what breeds comprise his make up. I don’t anticipate any large breeds. Now I have to find a company.
Belated Happy Birthday to Erin.
Sending calm and peaceful thoughts your way.
Thank you everyone. Your support is amazing and sooooo appreciated. I really can’t tell you what it means.
Phone calls and emails procured legal documents. Tick.
Lovely dental prosthesist who saw mum on Easter Sunday three years ago, also amazing, made a house call and has just left. He was so good with mum and so caring. A real Three Piner. There are some fabulous people in this world.
Pete has taken Dad for coffee and a haircut and Dad is feeling better.
How the wheel turns.
Thank you for the filing stories. Surely there is an app to help? Gave Erin a decluttering book for her birthday. Bet there are ideas in there. Have made a commitment to shredding a lot this weekend. I will use it to mulch the roses.
Great idea for the decluttering and what to do with the shredded pile. Of course, it’s also good for what to do with the body, as we all know, tee hee. My poor husband sometimes looks at me with horror when I can explain to him what lividity is and such, while we’re watching tv. I’m sure he sleeps with one eye open ever since I told him I KNOW what to do with the body, hahaha.
So glad things have gone well for your mum and dad, Anna – that’s got to be comforting that people are willing to come out and help – a house call by a specialist dentist MUST be something special!
I think there are several programs for such tidiness of files, etc., but it seems to me that everything still must be ENTERED, which is the hard part, hahaha. I’m amazed when I see people keep their computer files all willy-nilly. It’s odd, because paper files have always been a bear for me – I hate to do the filing and I hate putting things back into files, but on my computer, everything has always been very orderly. I can find anything in a few seconds, and I look at other people’s systems and realize that they seem to keep everything just either on their desktop, or in one file, which is akin to opening the file room door and throwing things in! Funny old ways we have…
Oh my. I can identify with the terrible filing system and the over-thorough one, too, Barbara. My parents never saved anything. I don’t know what they thought they’d do if they ever needed their insurance policies. Luckily, when my Dad died, he was still in his right mind and was able to tell my brother the names of the insurance companies, and where all pension money came from, etc., so they got everything changed to his control before Dad was gone. Otherwise, I can’t imagine. We were always sending off for birth certificates in my family because we’d lost them. And my hubby must be like yours, Barbara – we have the warranties for any appliance he’s bought since the 1950’s, but of course, finding one for the tv we bought last week is another story, hahaha. I’ve started putting everything in electronic files on my computer before I let him put them into the dreaded filing system. Between us, we can usually come up with things.
Anna, please don’t worry about the story – we’ll be ready whenever you are, but you have to take care of yourself. Who else is going to care where your mother’s dentures are? If you get sick, it won’t do anyone any good!
Good luck at the doctors Julie! And the dress sounds lovely. You are so creative.
Bit worried about the blurred vision Barbara. Do be careful.
Rough day here. On top of everything else mum’s denture is missing and dads eyes are bad. Excuse me while I run screaming around the room……right. Feeling better. I have spent the rest of the day hunting though files and emailing to get needed documents. I should have been a lawyer, that’s where the money is. So I need to get back to the story. Sorry only one line has been written……where did I leave off!
So that was the noise I heard……you screaming in frustration. I have actually hit that place myself. I felt much better afterwards. My family just stuck things in drawers in envelopes that where mismatched to what was inside. In the 2000s I found receipts for utility bills from the 1940s. But could I find Insurance policies? No Way. Sam keeps meticulous records in file folders in a cabinet. Sounds great! His filing system is from another planet. I spent hours looking for a serial # for the TV we bought recently. I couldn’t get in a position to read the back of the set. While searching, I came across a 15 year old folder with tentative plans for a trip to England. He was on a day trip to Charleston. It seems he had a wonderful time with a group of ladies who asked him to sit with them on the bus.
Hope you find your mother’s denture. Another patient had Aunt Charlcie’s once.
We will still be here when you get back to the story. Remember to take care of yourself. Sending calm, caring thoughts your way.
Hi everyone. Sister time was good. Few life complications since I have been home sorting some legal stuff for mum and dad. Naturally their nonexistent filing system….throwing paperwork in a box….doesn’t really help. On phone to lawyers as we speak and so complicated!
Hi Anna. Hope you had a great time with your sister. It sounded lie you two were having some good “sister time”. I vote for that. I realize that I am fortunate to have my sister only 15 minutes away. It is wonderful that you are able to visit.
Hope Erin enjoyed the ribs. I am cooking a large pork roast today. I should have had it cut in two at the grocery. I’ll just freeze some of it.
Welcome home, Anna! Glad you had fun – you will definitely need to rest, though, as the jet lag MUST be noticeable, even for you! I’m doing well – have just been to see my dressmaker about another piece for my Jane Austen wardrobe. I found some beautiful eyelet fabric a few years ago and bought it with an eye to doing something “summery” with it for my regular day dress. She and I conferred, and we are going to do a knee-length half robe with no sleeves – so kind of like a longish vest that will just add a summery touch to the colors of the dress, so I’m very happy about that!
Otherwise, I have several things that NEED to be done, but I keep procrastinating and not doing anything, hahaha. My first appointment with the eye surgeon is this Friday, so hopefully, by then, I’ll know the schedule for my cataract surgery. I can’t wait to have it behind me, and see what kind of difference it will make.
Julie, so glad you will see Dr. tomorrow. I will be thinking of you. I wish your other vision problems could be cured. Last week, I had to drive Sam to a Dr. whose office is I the next county out a very heavily travelled road with lots of construction being done. Of course the double vision problem made it very difficult. I would have surgery to correct it but the Dr. thinks it best not to since I only have it occasionally and I can always close one eye to compensate. LOL. I may as well laugh…..crying only makes sinuses hurt.
The idea of an eyelet overdress sounds just the thing to add a touch of summer. Eyelet was often used for summer fashions when I was young and I always thought it was so pretty.
I love hearing about your Jane Austen activities. What fun it must be.
Barbara – I’m so sorry to hear that you are having double vision! I get that occasionally, too, and have only just realized what it was – I always just kind of thought of it as a dizzy spell. As it only happens once in a blue moon and then for only a few minutes, I’ve never thought about doing anything for it… I probably ought to mention it to my doctor, though, now that I know what it is, haha. Driving with it must have been scary!
I’m always cooking roasts that are really too large for just the two of us, too, Barbara. Pork roast sandwiches are a real fave of mine, though, so I probably would eat it all, hahaha. Freezing some after it’s cooked is a great idea – then you can pull it out sometime in the summer for a nice cold supper!
Well I am back home and the sun is shining. First day of autumn here as we change seasons with with the calendar not the solstice. I was quite shocked to see the leaves on the trees were changing though. It would feel more autumnal if it wasn’t so warm and steamy. I love the fall…my favourite season of all I think. Its pretty, its cosy and I can whip up my favourite comfort foods. Having said that its Texan ribs tonight in honour of my recent expedition and they are for Erin as she loves ribs. We have to do the Southern BBQ tour next year and try the best.
Sorry there has been a mid story hiatus. Hopefully it just whets the appetite. If I can fight off the jet lag it is my first priority after lunch today.
Are you all well? Hoping Millie can see and you are all enjoying life to the full!
It is gorgeous. Put in the country tonight at a beautiful place called High Hill Farm which has bungalows and a restaurant. My sisters friends own it. So relaxing and peaceful. Hope everyone is ok. My wifi very patchy for posting
Oh, I’m glad you have good weather for your visit, Anna. The way things are going these days, the parts of the country that should be having warm sunny weather are experiencing winter storms, snow and flood-bringing rain, so you lucked out! Have a great visit.
You are a brave girl Millie. Changing routines after so long is very difficult. I have been trying to get used to new multi focal X and the iPad looks like it bends in the middle!
Good news, I survived the flight. I even managed to sleep so no writing was done. I am not sure I will get any done here as I am focused on time with my sister so there is a hiatus in the story people.
Sun is shining and weather is clear in Texas. Hope everyone has blue skies today!
Millie – I’m just thrilled for you that all is well with your eyes – did you have both eyes done at once? For some reason, I’ve been envisioning that they’ll do them one at a time… Don’t answer til you’re better!
Adding the e at the end of her first name won’t help, I’m afraid. These were never the big selling books that might get turned into audio, and they’ve not been needed to turn into Kindle, either. You’ll just have to get your hubby to read them to you!
Left eye done first, Julie. That lens is for midrange sight. May 5 they do the right eye with a lens corrected for far range sight. Till then I wear my glasses with left lens popped off so I start getting my brain used to which eye to use to focus on. Yesterday I couldn’t do it and was having mini panic attacks. For 50 years the first thing I’d do was put on my glasses and all was right with the world. Today I kept trying till something clicked and it finally worked. 😀
It’s tiring, though. But I’m no longer panicking.
As for Mike reading to me… Ahhh, I don’t see that happening – ever! ROFLOL. He wouldn’t even read to our sons when they were little, though he was willing to do all the other baby care things. Says he reads all day and the last thing he wants to do at home is read more. I’ve seen his reading stack when he brings work home. Can’t say I blame him. Holy Moly! The equivalent of 4 or 5 novels per day! (Yes, he’s learned to speed read) Then he has to look for errors in the material, and prepare a report which is equally long for disemination up the chain. He gets a pass in my opinion.
He’s been great through this entire surgery time, taking days off to make sure I was OK, driving me around, cooking, the works. I’m a lucky gal indeed, even if he won’t read to me. LOL
OK, that’s about all I can manage today.
Any suggestions for a book to listen to while we wait for August? Preferably not part of a series…
Hello Three Piners. Please scroll up the page in a bit to see a few comments. I echo Anna’s gratitude for your support and add my gratitude for your patience. I’ve gotten used to midrange on left eye and far range on right eye with that trifocal lens on my glasses. But close up reading or typing is already a challenge so I’m not sure how it is going to go after the other eye gets its new lens. (Sorry Julie, right eye surgery is MARCH 7th – today, the 5th I’ve started the pre-op eye drops. I have no idea why I wrote May other than I’m more than a wee bit of overwhelmed. Life sure gets interesting when one wants down time.) I just need to practice patience till it’s all sorted out. I trust my ophthalmologist so I’m not in panic mode about my vision. Not yet, lol… I can’t do much about Mike’s terrible cold except pray I don’t get it. I suspect sneezing in the middle of surgery would not be ideal. 🙂 Add to that some interesting “family” drama going on in several fronts, I’m extremely grateful they aren’t Mike’s or my problem and I’ve learned to say “NO, sorry, but your plans don’t work for us right now.” That was harder than I thought it would be but I may be getting a stronger character along with my increasing years. That or I’m tired of drama. LOL
Sending wishes of DRAMA FREE calm and peace to all.
Sneaking in another thanks for positive thoughts while Mike is in his man cave. I’ve been forbidden to read or type for at least a week. Gasp, gag! So far so good. I can’t see clearly with both eyes open but I could make out the letters on the chart with a funny patch with holes. Gues I need to give my eye time to heal.
Nancy & Catheryn, so very nice to hear from you. I knew I was surrounded by caring souls. Catheryn, and Barbara, The Storied life… Starts a bit slow, but it picks up quickly. Don’t give up on it too soon. I looked for Helene Hanff on audio and no luck. 🙁 Maybe I should try adding the e at the end of her first name?
Best of best thoughts to all. More as I can. Oh, Barbara, Downtown Abby is great this season!
How I wish I could write more…
Anna – a “quick” trip to Texas? I’m not sure you could get to anywhere in the US, including Hawaii on anything you could call a “quick” trip, hahaha. But I know what you mean. Hope the mum and dad fires stay put out for a bit… it can be wearying. I feel like almost everyone here in the Bistro is going through some of the same things except me. On the one hand, that’s good, but of course, it’s mostly because both parents are gone, and I have no children or close siblings to worry about, hahaha. I get my worrying in second-hand with my step-daughter and her son and his son. But they are fairly far away and we only hear about the big things, and they’re all doing very well, so that’s a good thing, too. Well, I won’t laugh the face of the gods too long – they’ll find a way to bring me up short, I’m sure! ;->
Cathryine, I think of you often, and hope you are doing well. And Barbara, I meant to say that I was so happy your sister has been doing a little better – I think I ended up talking about me instead (so typical!). May everyone have a little bit easier time of things even just for a day or two…
Hello Dear Cathryne, how wonderful to hear from you. I think of you all the time. I know exactly what you mean about Mum fires! Everyday brings a fresh challenge. Had one of those today but with dad.
So glad you are getting to read and how lovely of you to reread The Cove. Book 2 is done but I need to tidy and I keep thinking I will get there but gosh, life gets in the way. Soon I hope. I will try and finish short story….maybe when I am at the airport or on the plane.
Stay calm and well Cathryne and thank you for letting us know you are ok!
Daughters-in – law!
So glad you let the Bistro friends know that things went well, Millie. I’ve been sending good thoughts your way today and before. I’ve been following you all, wishing you well, and mentally speaking to you through days and nights!
Still many Mom fires to put out and I find it hard to find words when I get to my iPad, but I have felt your presence and support. Thank you.
My husband, sons, daughters-in-laws, grandchildren are fine; that keeps me constantly grateful.
I loved rereading the three Helene Hanff books I own and just received Q’s Legacy and The Storied Life of A. J. Fiery, on your recommendations. Listening to Louise Penny’s books for the _____th time and loving them. So much to think about, such good laughs, such human understanding. And I feel like I see the character development more clearly and more as a continuum each time I listen to them, book to book to book, the long house, as Gamache says, I think.
Oh, and Anna, I reread The Cove and enjoyed it even more on second reading, more relaxed. Hoping that you will publish your second book soon. Hint! I’m having fun reading your short story too, keep it coming!
Best thought to you all.
Yay Millie. You are a star. Rest and recover.
Congrats Millie ! Thanks for the news.